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In an article I wrote--"Contempt: the Cause of Racism"--for the magazine U.S. African Eye, I quoted this urgent, kind question asked by Eli Siegel, the great American educator who founded the philosophy of Aesthetic Realism: "What does a person deserve by being a person?"
How Should People See Other People?These two possibilities of mind, I learned, are what humanity now is debating: Should we hope to increase our respect for other people, or to see them with contempt? And it is plain, there can be no lasting kindness in a family or economic justice in a nation until that debate is settled honestly. A story which powerfully illustrates the fight between contempt and respect--and how it has to do both with economics and family life--is "In the Hospital," by the Liberian author Similih M. Cordor, published in Charles Larson's valuable 1997 anthology, Under African Skies (Noonday Press, NY.) Mr. Cordor's story is, among other things, a criticism of how the medical profession is corrupted by the desire to make profit. It is hard to imagine anything less civilized than a society in which sick people and their families, terrified of what may happen to them, have to worry that a doctor, or a hospital, may be less interested in their well-being than in their money. Yet this is the case in America, Liberia, and many other nations of the world. As the story begins, Kollie, a 45 year old carpenter who has brought his family to Monrovia in search of work, comes home from the shop to find his wife, Marwu, who is pregnant, lying coiled in pain on a mat, feeling--as she has for weeks--desperately ill. Marwu is still suffering from the effects of an operation seven months earlier; nor has she recovered from the ordeal of her last pregnancy, which, two years before, required a cesarian section. Kollie wants to be kind. Though money is tight, and medicines expensive, and his own work back-breaking, he says to his wife, who feels bad that her illness has prevented her from doing any work, "You ain't supposed to worry about money in you condition." And Marwu is worried: now that the family has only one source of income, the food supply for their young children is nearly exhausted. Maybe, she tells her husband, they can no longer afford to send money to the "old people upcountry." "I know things are hard on us," Kollie answers, "but we won't forget our own people in Voinjama 'cause they're depending on us." Kindness and SelfishnessThough it takes different forms in different societies, men all over the world have felt we had a right to impose our will on women--to see them as "lesser" beings who existed to serve us, make us comfortable. This attitude to women--that they exist for our selfish advantage--is evil; it is akin, essentially, to other large evils in history: slavery, colonialism, and the profit system, where people see other people in terms of financial advantage. "The first victory of contempt," Eli Siegel writes in the "Preface" to Self and World (Definition Press, NY. 1981): |
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